Thursday, November 29, 2012

Mak meets Grandmama Watson!

As the time got closer and closer for our son's arrival, I couldn't wait for everybody to meet him but there was one person that I was most excited about meeting him, my grandmother Grandmama Watson!  In the past few months, Grandmama's health had declined and she went from her house - to the hospital - to a rehab center - to the hospital - to a nursing home - to the hospital and finally back home with 24 hour care. She wasn't able to do anything on her own but her mind was all there which was the hardest part of it all. I kept praying to God that he would bring my son into this world before he took my grandmother because as much as she was hurting, I knew she wanted to meet him! When she made her last trip to the hospital before coming back home, she made an 180 degree turn FOR THE BETTER! Although she is still needing 24 hour care, and a wheelchair, she was sent home and spent Thanksgiving with her kids and grandkids! What a blessing it was to have her home with us for Thanksgiving! We were all SO THANKFUL to have her home with us! Mak was born and we came home from the hospital on Thursday and waited for Mom and Dad to get home so we could walk Baby Boy next door to finally meet this wonderful woman! There was nothing sweeter than seeing her face light up as we introduced her to our sweet little "Mitchell" and having her "Mitchell" there with her too!  It was a sweet first time meeting that we will cherish forever!


Me and Grandmama with "Our Mitchells"! Four Generations

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Mak's Birth

I have always heard child birth is something you will never fully understand until you experience it for yourself and I can now officially say, I 100% agree! I'll take you back to November 19 when I had my second to last prenatal visit, 1 day before my due date, in hopes that they would say I was dilated more than 2 cm and that I would be induced on my due date. Unfortunately, Baby Boy was not ready to come, however we were able to schedule our induction for November 27th, if he had not made his appearance on his own before then. The days passed and we got through Thanksgiving, then we got through the Carolina-Clemson game{which the Gamecocks won!} and I was convinced after the nail-biter of a game we experienced, if I had not gone into labor from that, we weren't going to meet our little man until I was induced Tuesday morning. We had an appointment scheduled for Monday November 26th, for my last prenatal appointment, to see if I had progressed at all and again, in hopes that they would just send me to the hospital. Monday morning, I woke up with signs of labor at 5:45 am and freaking out, I frantically woke Alex up and told him but I ended up lying on the couch and waiting until our appointment at 10:45, which seemed like FOREVER! We headed to my appointment and was put on a monitor to track my contractions and they were 5-7 minutes apart. The doctor checked me and I was 3 cm dilated, however, Dr Ridenhour(the doctor on call) told me she wouldn't be surprised if she saw me later that day at the hospital. Frustrated at the news that we were so close yet so far, we left the doctor's office and came home. My poor husband came down with a cold/sinus issue THE DAY BEFORE we were about to welcome our son, so he took some meds and went to bed while Mom and I ran some errands to get things off my mind and hopefully put me into labor. The doctor told me to track my contractions and call if they got to every 5 minutes, so as were in the car, I experienced my first contraction and then another and another all within 5 minutes, some 4.5 minutes and some 3 minutes. We called my sister who has become the expert at having babies and she said to call the doctor and let them know. After a quick call back to the doctor, within maybe 2 hours of leaving the doctors office, we were headed back in! Having to wake Alex up, he met me and Mom at the doctor's office and the doctor checked me. Dr. Ridenhour said, "You're 5 cm, I think it's time to head to the hospital" and I wish I had a camera to capture Alex's eyes when he heard her say those words. HILARIOUS! I was wheeled over to the hospital at 5:19 pm and was admitted to the hospital to HAVE OUR BABY!!! After getting hooked up to the IV and talking with the nurse, she said that I was way too calm to already be 5 cm and not in much pain. I was debating on not getting the epidural because my contractions weren't that bad and I could tolerate the pain. I was more worried about feeling the epidural being injected into my back{not cool!} but after a while, I decided to get the epidural before it was too late, which later proved to be in my best interest! Every 2.5 hours, the nurse would come check me and unfortunately, I was only progressing 1 cm each time. My entire family got things together and headed to the hospital as soon as they heard I was going in and we had a room full of waiting and waiting! Some stayed in the room, and others went in the waiting room and slept as we got well into the night. After 12.5 hours of being in the hospital, it was finally time to start pushing! HOORAY! I was going in expecting to push for 30 minutes, maybe an hour. Our sweet little boy just couldn't make his way out and after THREE{3} LONG HOURS of pushing and help from a vacuum suction, at 9:24 am Mak made his entrance into this world! I can't even remember the last 2 hours of me pushing, and I had to receive some oxygen and Baby Boy's heart rate was dropping after every contraction I had. They immediately took him to get oxygen and drain some fluid he got after being stuck for so long and sent him to the NICU. All I remember was praying to God he would take care of our precious Baby Boy, as I watched my husband stare at all the nurses giving our son oxygen. We didn't hear him cry when he was born and it took a while before we heard the smallest of cries from him before Alex went with the nurses to the NICU. We were told he could be in the NICU for 6-8 hours or for the entire stay but they just didn't know. God was watching over us and our son, because at 12:00 Alex and I were allowed to go see Mak for the first time and hold him. The moment I held that sweet boy, it's like he knew exactly who I was and all was okay. We are thanking the Good Lord Above for watching over our little miracle, and at 1:30 just 4 hours after he was born, he was in our room with us and never left! Child birth is seriously an oxymoran, its the most painful thing I have ever gone through yet the most rewarding thing I have ever gone though. Right after Mak was born and I had pushed for 3 grueling hours, I looked at Alex and told him this might be our only child, but quickly changed my mind as soon as I held our sweet baby boy! All the pain in the world couldn't overtake the love I have for my son. My poor family waited and waited, slept and slept{in the hospital room and waiting room} all night and morning long, and we can't thank them enough! We were so fortunate to have them there with us even if they stayed there for 16 hours! We had a great hospital stay and left the hospital on Thursday November 29! Below are some pictures taken from his birth and throughout our hospital stay! {WARNING: PICTURE OVERLOAD!}





 

 


4 hours old!









 
 

 
Going Home!
 


 
 

Welcome to the world Mitchell Alan "Mak" Kubas!!

After 16 hours of labor, Alex and I are pleased to announce the birth of our son, Mitchell Alan "Mak" Kubas born November 27, 2012 at 9:24 am weighing in at {larger than expected} 9 lbs 2 oz and 22.5 inches long! He is absolutely perfect and we are over joyed with the love we instantly had for him the minute we saw him! All three of us are doing great and ready to get home to start our family of three! Mak's birth post to follow!

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

40 Weeks!!

We are officially at 40 weeks today and still no baby..boooo! I had made ZERO progress the last time we went to the doctor at 39 weeks and I was beginning to get extremely frustrated and grumpy! Yesterday, we had our 40 week visit in hopes of SOME progress! We ended up having an ultrasound to check to see if there was enough amniotic fluid for the baby and there was! We also got the news that Baby Boy has LOTS of hair! Then I had a stress test for about 30 minutes to monitor the baby's heartbeat and any contractions I was having. Everything was great with the exception that the machine kept alarming and scaring this {very} pregnant mama! And then it was time to meet with the doctor to see if I had dilated at all..and almost at 3 cm!!! I've never been so happy! Not only had I made progress but we were also able to schedule an induction date if our sweet, yet stubborn, little boy hasn't made his appearance with no assistance for NOVEMBER 27th! As hard as it is to have to wait, we were so excited to finally have something scheduled and set in stone! Now that I've made progress and such a huge jump from only 3 days, we have packed our bags, put the carseat in the car and now just waiting waiting and waiting! With Thanksgiving only 2 days away, everyone keeps asking "what if he comes on thanksgiving??" and my response{thanks to the way my dad raised me} is always "as long as he doesn't come on Saturday during the Carolina-Clemson game, we are good"! And after yesterday's appointment and the news of my process, both Alex and my dad have said he's coming on Saturday{HA!}! As long as the Gamecocks win, I guess it's fine! We are so ready to finally meet our sweet baby boy and ask that you keep us in your thoughts and prayers this next week for a safe and healthy delivery as we welcome our son!!

40 week belly pic..